7 ways to meet a woman for those who want a girlfriend

7 ways to meet a woman for those who want a girlfriend
Do you have a partner now? It is said that there are more people without partners, but you would often see couples in town.

Maybe that is because they have shiny auras. You probably want to be like them some day, but it is not easy to meet someone who you can get along with. Here are 7 ways to meet a woman who you can get along with, and possibly be your girlfriend.



7 ways to meet a woman for those who want a girlfriend

 

-Know yourself


First of all, let’s make sure about basic things. It is about you. For example, how do you like to spend your weekend? Indoors or outdoors? By yourself or with friends? What is important is to think about the situation you feel comfortable the most.

As you get older, we often go along with other people and try to show ourselves better. You might prefer to read books at home, but say “I love to play sports with friends”. Don’t make up yourself. Analyze briefly what kind of man you are.

Examples are, love to go outside or to stay home, like to be alone or with friends, dress in showy clothes or prefer somber colors, smooth operator or earnest, have many friends or few…there are many things you can think of. Analyze yourself and learn your relation with women from it.

 

-Know people


Next, think about what types of woman you can get along with. If you are a rather quiet man, may be it is difficult to go out with showy, active woman.

Active man either can or cannot get along with quiet woman. When showy man and woman go out, they progress quickly in the beginning but farther relation depends on each couple.

Now, is it right for a quiet man to go clubbing on weekend to meet quiet woman? The answer is of course no. There are many women in clubs, but quiet woman probably won’t spend weekend at a club. Know your type, what kind of woman you are looking for, and places she likely to go.

 

-Don’t say excuses


Next, let’s think about behaviors in details. One of the characteristics of man without a partner is that he says “I want a girlfriend”, but always preparing excuses to justify that he doesn’t have a partner.

For example, “too busy working”, “have no time” or “have no chance to meet woman”. He blames on works and environment, and not really looking for a partner. Many people use their age as excuse.

It isn’t true that “you can’t have a girlfriend if you are over 30”. There are people who start new love from their 60s and get married. Looking back or beautify past is what man without future prospects does. Think it as a bad habit.

It is true that being said something about love is bothering and “rumor is frightening”. But, so what? True adults know how to deal with it as their own problem.

That is how adults act. Besides you are frequently exchanging your partner within same office or having bad love, people will warmly watch over you.

Those who don’t feel this way can be considered to be jealous at you or not matured. Aren’t you keeping yourself away from new meeting with such excuses? Your courage is the only way to start new love.

 

-Think about the place of meeting


As I said earlier, there are appropriate place for each person. Many women doesn’t always mean there are chances. Think about the places you can meet women you can get along with.

People coming to cafes changes depending on time or cafe itself. Cafe in a business district should be busy in a morning. People quickly buy coffees and hurry to their office. It is difficult to meet someone in such situation.

Suburbs’ cafe on weekend afternoon is filled with housewives and students talking, and too noisy. For you, maybe the best time is before noon and 2 to 3 p.m. on weekdays. With few people relaxing and enjoying coffee.

Visit same cafe at similar time several times, and find a woman who you often see. If she seems to be enjoying a quiet atmosphere like you, maybe you can greet her. It can be a beginning.

Some people like bookstores. They of course love books, but they can collect many information effectively in bookstores. Here, visit often at similar time as well. If you often see same woman at your favorite shelf, you can probably talk to her.

 

-Think about the way to show you


Think whether you are interested as a partner, or how you are seen from a woman of your interest. A woman who is calm, has a sense of advancement, and likes to study says people who love to have pets are not bad people.

To a calm woman, it is better to give them “not bad” impression rather than strongly appeal that you are good with something. Attending seminars and studying can appeal you as an earnest person.

If woman likes to attend seminars, she should be an open-minded person who can accept opinions of others. Volunteering is another “not bad” point you can appeal to her. Always think about how you are seen.

 

-Show your character


Half of the people in this world are men. The first step to be selected as an interest of love is to be noticed by women. You should pass by many women every day, but only few of them notice you.

Show your character from yourself. Always wear an item that is recognized as “you”. Caps, beards, ties…Many famous people have their “symbol” items. It can be your weapon if it becomes your character, without even telling your name.

 

-Just be serious


There should be a reason that you don’t have a girlfriend. It is yourself that is causing this reason. Do you want to get older alone? Don’t you think it is a loss of time not to share things you can do only now? Think and be serious.

 

I hope this article will help you.

In work or love, it is difficult to be successful, because there is only one answer and infinite excuses. For those who think of excuses for not having a girlfriend, don’t you have same attitude toward work?

By trying to be successful in every part of your life, you will become attractive as you get more confidence. Think once again about the way of thinking and life attitudes, and try to progress. You will have success in job and have partner unconsciously.

 

Summary

7 ways to meet a woman for those who want a girlfriend

-Know yourself
-Know people
-Don’t say excuses
-Think about the place of meeting
-Think about the way to show you
-Show your character
-Just be serious