Time just flies by and you might turn 30 remaining single. Just because you are not 20s any more, you might feel indebted to single. Physical change like the skin or constitution will gradually increase in 30s I will give you who have turned 30 in the turning point of life advice about 7 choices of happy life.
7choices of Happy for Single Woman around Age 30
It is quite natural that what single women age 30 think in turning point of life is whether they marry or not. It is good opportunity to think about future seriously if you have a boyfriend. Talk about
☆whether you get married or not
☆if you do, when?
You would have to think break up with him if he had no intention of marriage. Even though you want to stay lovers for a while, it would be fine of course. Women who have no lover should go to a place to meet people actively to look for a man who can date with you with view of marriage. If you are not picky about a man, you will find someone suits you soon. You should be careful not to act passively because you would become 40s soon.
Single women who have been pursuing their career might encounter good change in their 30s. Their efforts in 20s would bear fruit and they would get meaningful work to do. The good point of work is that the harder you work the more reward you can get. If you had been working in a blind effort, you should work in down- to-earth approach in your 30s and have good manners. It is up to you how much your career will be successful.
Picture your life 10years from now taking living alone, living together and marriage into account and reconsider where you live. If you would keep paying your rent without any thought, it would be irresponsible for you in the future. If you stay single for a while, you can aim to buy condominium.
If you carry on working, you should consider a move to apartment near your office for shortening the time of commuting. And people who have a lover thinking about marriage should reconsider the best place where you live together.
As the old saying goes “Some of the edge also touch sleeves”. That means just touching someone’s sleeve affects someone’s life and the opposite is equally true. For example, you would get on the train and see someone next to you thinking “Her clothes is so cute,
Maybe I will buy one”. It could be little destiny.
If people just passed by you affect you in some way, you would have been influenced so much by your friends who spent a great amount of time with you. So you should consider whether you should spare time on your friends. You might have some friends who make you feel down every time meet. Do you need such a friend? You should be careful about choice of friend in 30s.
After trend towards nuclear families which subtilize family relationship with age showing up, there have been various kinds of social problems in Japan. You should have room to think about others in your thirties.
Why don’t you be nice to your parents who have been supporting you? Even though you live far away from your family, you should be the first to keep in touch with them once a week at least. As a single woman, you will be able to become dignified person by thinking about your parent’s support so far.
Taking marriage too seriously is the bad points of single women such as “Great turning pint of life” “Graduation from single life”. You should take marriage lightly taking a cue from animal as for marriage. You do not have to experience romance for marriage. You could marry for purpose of economical matter.
Since you have turned 30, you should throw away daydream which single women tend to have and reconsider your view of marriage with down-to-earth view.
☆ having a boyfriend but cannot get married
☆ do not bride hunting because it is embarrassing
☆ give up marriage at age 30 “I cannot”
If you have been trapped in a vicious cycle like that, you should take marriage more simply like just a life cycle. You might go to the next step easily.
How much do you know about yourself? Have you ever reflected on yourself without your name, your face and your career? Just now, you should be away from busy days like work, friends, lovers and take time to reflect on yourself. In such an environment, you will be able to see true yourself.
What do you need as a single woman?What is meaningless thing to you in 30s? You would get courage to throw things away by reflecting on yourself.
How was that?
What do you who have turned 30 think about 7 choices? You don’t have to be shamed on you just because you are single. If there is something you should be shamed on that would be laziness that you would just waste time without your own way, definite goal.
The 7 advice would support you in some way. Let’s think about 7 choices and go your own way. I hope you to reflect on yourself and have a happy 30s life.
7choices of Happy for Single Woman around Age 30
No1. A lover