When you talk with someone, have you ever thought like

・ What is this person thinking right now?
・How is this person thinking about me?
・Is this person listening to me or not?
etc..?

If you are a businessperson, the person might be your business partner, and in your private life, the person may be a friend, the boyfriend,the girlfriend, or the attractive person you’ve met lately.There should be surely the once that you thought if you could read someone’s mind.
Can we read the person’s mind when you talk with him/her?

The answer is YES,

but of course it’s not 100%. However, a person does special gesture and movement at the time of a certain condition.So by knowing the pattern, you will be able to know what is the person thinking about now or how he/she thinks about you to some extent. Of course you don’t need to have a high technique nor difficult knowledge and know-how!! Today we write the ways to read people’s gestures and psychological state.

The 7 ways to read mind by the habits and the gestures

The way to read 1: Check the person’s eyes

The eyes are important parts which you can find out the psychological state of the person. The eyes are a crucial part to read a person’s psychological state.

It is known from a long time ago, as we can see there are so many proverbs and idiomatic phrases about eyes.Especially by the way he/she looks, you can tell that a person lies or not.

For example, when a someone is trying to remember something, usually the eyes move to the left, but when the person is lying, mostly the eyes move to the right. Because when we lie, we think with the left brain so that consistency and the logic match. 

Then we match the eyes with it, and a glance goes to the right with the left brain. If you want to find out a truth or a lie when you are talking with someone, check the movement of the glance.

It is a digression, but when people lie, a man misses the eyes while a woman try to put eyes together adversely.

This is very useful to remember. 

The way to read 2: Check whether the person’s hands and a body begin to move restlessly

When a person becomes restless suddenly from the middle of a story and is beginning to move the hands or shake a body, it is a sign to hide the lies.

We tend to move our hands and body more than we need if we have something to hide. We know the word “suspicious behavior” , this also suggests that when we lie or have something to hide it appears as act.

If you have conviction for someone’s lie, check this out and sense it bodily in your own. Once you know it, you will be able to find out people’s lie quite easily.

The way to read 3: Check the timing of the conversation

The conversation is a catch-ball of words. It exchanges in good state of the tempo when we are in good condition, but when the person is getting bored or tired, the response becomes late a little.

You must not miss this sign. You will be the person who can’t sense a situation if you keep talking without noticing this signal.

So when we talk,let’s always pay attention to the tempo of a conversation. 

The way to read 4: Put something in front of you

Especially when you talk with someone face to face across a table like in business situation , if the person put a coffee cup or a book on the middle of the table…it is disappointing, but there is a high possibility 

・The person regards you with hostility

・The person is showing an attitude not to listen to you 
・The person thinks unpleasantly

In such a case, we recommend you to 
・Quite the conversation immediately
・Chang the topic
etc , instead of sticking the conversation.

The way to read 5: Check the person’s state of the palm

For example, if someone shows his/her palm to you, it means the person is accepting you.

In other words it may be said that the person is in condition opening the heart to you. 
On the contrary if the person is 

・grasping it and making a fist

・putting his/her hands under the table

in a case, mostly the person is not accepting a story or not opening the heart. 

The way to read 6: Check the person’s action while you are talking

For example, when you are talking with someone like at a cafe, 
if the person’s behavior is like 
・playing with the straw of the drink
・watching a cell phone
・looking here and there

these are one of the signs that the person is getting bored.
If the person is checking his/her watch or cell phone, it is a sign which the person want to leave off the conversation.
So by checking these actions and the state, you should change your act or a topic of conversation. 

The way to read 7: Judge if the person is interested in the conversation or not

The one of the ways to judge is to see the person nearly falls forward and is listening to you.

In this case, mostly the person is interested in your story and listening closely so keep having the conversation. However if the person folds his/her arms or listens to it while adding the back to a chair and bending, mostly 
・The person is not listening to you
・The person is regarding you with hostility
・The person is cautious

Check as a criterion that the person is listening to you when you have a conversation in business or a meeting.

What did you think?
You might think these ways are not so new. Yet it is important to understand people’s intentions by checking these natural habits and gestures without overlooking. People act and think in various ways as each of them has their own character, but unconscious behaviors and body movements are common in many cases. So try to read people’s mind by using this article’s contents.

The 7 ways to read mind by the habits and the gestures

The way to read1:Check the person’s eyes
The way to read 2:Check whether the person’s hands and a body begin to move restlessly
The way to read 3:Check the timing of the conversation
The way to read 4:Put something in front of you 
The way to read 5:Check the person’s state of the palm
The way to read 6: Check the person’s action while you are talking
The way to read 7:Judge if the person is interested in the conversation or not