7 simple and effective ways to become popular

7 simple and effective ways to become popular
The Japanese word “moteru” that means to become popular can be used not only for people. It comes from the word “motehayasu” meaning to praise. In other words, the word means to lionize. Anyway many people want to become popular to get a boyfriend/girlfriend or in business.

It is said that you have to be good-looking to become popular, however, only beautiful women and handsome men are not necessarily popular. Looks don’t matter. In fact, there are some good-looking people who are hated by many people.
Now here are ways to become popular.



 7 simple and effective ways to become popular

 

1. Drawing self portrait

In order to become popular, you have to get to know yourself. It is important to know how you look like, otherwise it is hard to make yourself attractive.

The important thing is to look at yourself objectively. That’s why drawing self portrait is one of the ways to become popular. Even though you look at yourself in the mirror every day, you might find something you haven’t realised while you draw.

 

2. Doing something that is unlike you.

If you are not popular, you should change yourself. How? Actually it is quite difficult to change yourself. If you change your personality or taste on a whim, you may notice the suspicious stare of your friends.

So just try to do something a bit different. For instance, you can change your clothing colours, wear a hat or greet in different ways. These might be small changes, but you may discover something that you haven’t realised before or get others to pay attention to you.

 

3. Taking self portrait photography

You can take a self portrait photo with a cell phone or digital camera. Basically if you don’t like yourself, you can’t be liked by someone. When you have an inferiority complex, you might keep someone away as you show a negative attitude.

Even if you feel inferior, you need to accept it. If you try to like yourself just the way you are and turn on your charms, you can show your true self. By taking self portraits again and again, you can accept yourself with inferiority complex.

 

4. Trying to like people you don’t like

A popular person never speaks ill of somebody. When you treat people with respect, you can be liked by others. Therefore, it is important to find good things about someone’s personality.

So let’s try to find good things about a person you don’t like.

 

5. Trying good responses

It is sometimes hard to feel you are popular. If you really want to become popular, communication is the key. Communication to become popular is to be a good listener.

The important point is that you should not just listen. You have to show a speaker that you are listening to him/her. In order to this, you need to use a variety of responses.

 

6. One more greeting

It is important to be thoughtfulness for others if you want to become popular. You need to be thoughtful for not only people you want to attract the attention but everyone.

One more greeting is one of the simple ways to become popular. For example, you can say “Good morning” plus “What are you up to?”, or “See you tomorrow” plus “Take care on your way home”, so people may thing you are thoughtful.

 

7. Trying to be helpful

The ultimate way to become popular is to be helpful. This is not easy. You cannot devote your time to helping someone.

So, just try to be helpful. Just think what they need and what you can do for them. You’ll find the answers soon.
These 7 methods can be used for not only being in a relationship but also having a good business relationship. Also, they can be practical for product development.

 

 

It is simply that to be popular is to get people to pay attention to you as well as to make a favourable impression on others. It is good to be popular anytime, anywhere, isn’t it?

 

7 simple and effective ways to become popular

1. Drawing self portrait
2. Doing something that is unlike you
3. Taking self portrait photography
4. Trying to like people you don’t like
5. Trying good responses
6. One more greeting
7. Trying to be helpful
If you think these are difficult to do, try to use this “your regular expression checklist” in order to break bat habits and have good habits.

By using this,
1. You can change your environment by changing yourself.
2. You can feel confident and have good communication with others.
3. You can become lively by getting people’s attention.

Hope you will have a wonderful personality by using the list.