7 ways to know male psychology for love

7 ways to know male psychology for love
If love is compared to battle, to know the enemy is one of the most important strategy to win. As men and women think differently, ways to approach a person they love also differ. Not only with women psychology and instinct, you should also understand male psychology before taking action. Here are ways to capture male psychology and hold on to their heart.



7 ways to know male psychology for love

 

-To be successful at first meet?


Regardless of gender, the impression when you first met is very important. Here, impression means not only how you look. It is not that important as long as you are far beyond common etiquette. You should pay more attention to atmosphere and expression. The smile is the most important.

Men tend to think women who can talk smoothly from the first time (can communicate without trying hard) as “the best woman” for them. For them to relax and talk from the first time, smile to lower their defenses is needed.

Rememeber that it is nothing unless your smile is properly delivered to him. Also position of your chin changes the impression of your smile. Use a mirror to practice your best smile.

 

-Prepare in advance about male psychology


It is also necessary to make sure in advance (prepare) about male psychology. What I recommend you here are comic books for men. Men learn “what women are like” from women’s comics. Make good use of Internet cafes to read them.

They may become a common subject of talking, or thoughts and attitudes of women in comics are often desired and ideal of men, so they can be the best textbooks to learn male psychology. If possible, reading several series of works is more helpful. Also search which comics are recommemded beforehand.

 

-Be successful by compliments


Men like to be praised. Maybe it is because men often deal with more stress than women, they feel secured by being complimented. However, concentrating just on compliment sounds a bit phony, so make sure to listen to his talk closely and compliment.

Sometimes, include your emotion. Even if the point of praising is a bit wrong, it won’t sound awkward in this way. For example, if you say “you are working hard”, he might ask you for detail “how?”, but if you say “I am encouraged by hearing about your effort”, then he will most likely to be delighted.

 

-Approach and make success


You may feel shy to tell your feeling, but once you see some “hope”, then why don’t you speak up to tell your feeling. You should choose the way, though. Telling by e-mail is easy, so may be it is a good idea to tell what happened everyday (avoid long message) once you know his address.

Your touching behavior will bring you up to his mind, even if he was not interested at first. When it is time, write a love letter. As e-mail is getting popular in modern times, hand written letter touches his heart more than you expect. Go back to your first feeling and try writing your feeling of love.

 

-Tell your thoughts


Women who have their own opinion and can say “what is bad”, “what is good” are more attractive than those who hide their true feeling and go along with people’s opinion to be loved. It seems important to have opinion so you can give both positive and negative sayings.

To do so, you need to have a sense of purpose in work and life, and need to improve everyday. Many men see “woman who has priority on work and life, and has earnest attitude to keep it” as requirements for their partner.

 

-Understand the difference between men and women


When comparing men and women, it is true that men prefer logical talks while women like emotional talks. You need to understand this well, or you suffer from a gap of thoughts with men.

For example, when you ask for advice to a man, he will give you very logical and organized answer. However, you are being too emotional from self-love and can’t accept his advice. You might repeat “but…” in spite of the fact you are given conclusive answer. This difference in way of thinking might trouble men.

 

-Consider his feeling and be successful


What all men have is “men’s pride”. Don’t feel frustrated if kind man becomes bossy when talking about his work. He is not looking you down. Please understand that his attitude comes from trying to appeal you his excellence. Also, understand what he is proud of, and consider his feeling.

 

Could you find any helpful tips?

From men’s point of view, a woman who they want to go out with and a woman who they want to stay by their side are different. Don’t end your relationship as just friends, and please try tips I mensioned above to be successful in your love with him.

 

Summary

7 ways to know male psychology for love

-To be successful at first meet?
-Prepare in advance about male psychology
-Be successful by compliments
-Approach and make success
-Tell your thoughts
-Understand the difference between men and women
-Consider his feeling and be successful