9 ways to know male psychology for happy love

9 ways to know male psychology for happy loveHaven’t you ever thought “men are difficult to understand”? And did you know that men are thinking about women the same? We human fall in love with each other though we can’t understand each other.

The difference between men and women make our psychology almost like we are different being. That’s why it is a chance. Understand male psychology, which is difficult to understand, and make a difference in happy love.



9 ways to know male psychology for happy love

 

-What are men’s instincts?


When men meet women, their coursing instinct is in full view. Men first judge women by how they look. Whether they are their tastes or not. It is a preliminary step before developing into love. Women with their favorite appearance will have a chance to develop their relation into love.

Men with too much pride tend to get deeply into a beautiful woman of their taste, and men with not much pride are more likely to have wider range of tastes. You might feel angry for “so they eventually care only how we look?”, but men are such people. The important thing is, though, you should appeal to certain person’s taste, rather than being beautiful to everyone’s eyes.

 

-Difference in attitudes


If you are their taste of a woman, men with their coursing instinct will try to know more about you. Name, job, how you spend your weekends, or your favorite foods. If they ask many questions about you, you can consider that you meet their tastes.

On the other hand, if they continue ordinary conversation instead of asking about you, you might not be one of their kind. Men treat women of their tastes and who is not obviously differently.

 

-Men have much pride


Men are said to say their real opinion only half as much as women. This is because they think it is uncool to do so. Men have more pride than women expect. For men, being popular is very important. It is not too much to say that not being popular means there is no meaning to be alive for men.

Therefore, they want to have a woman by their side who is in favor of them. If you don’t show affection at all, they will walk away to keep their pride. If you show too much favor, they get carried away too much. If you show a favor but walk away, they will run after you. If you want to be closer than being just a friend or an acquaintance, this is going to be an important factor.

 

-All men have ulterior motive


Men think of women as people of opposite sex, before thinking they are same humans. They are always conscious about women, that they of course have ulterior motive more than a little. Kind behavior to women more or less comes from ulterior motive. Know that men can have physical affair without love.

It is a big mistake to think you are loved because you had relationship. It is up to 5 times that men maintain that relationship with passion and fresh feeling of excitement. You will see whether it comes from a true love or not after it.

 

-Opening up yourself a little is necessary


Perfect person will make men hesitate that there is no chance for them to take advantage. Opening up yourself a little and showing a chance is necessary to attract interests and attention of men. Men with too much pride never take a risk of a possibility to be brushed-off to love someone. They don’t miss a small chance you show.

 

-Philosophical and rational


Males are philosophical and rational. When you blame your partner for, for instance because you can’t reach him or his answer to e-mails are late, it just shrinks his love toward you.

It is also the same when you blame him for not saying words of love or not showing love with attitude. Men less likely to feel heady sense of love or about themselves than women, and think philosophically and rationally. Not only putting it into words and behaviors, but maintain the feeling of love within their heart. That is the style of men.

 

-Understand the difference in sense of values


Women often recognize new hairstyles, new nails, or new bags, but most men don’t. Not only they don’t recognize, but they also don’t even care about it. Especially, having nails done is not so special to men as women think. In reality, most men don’t really like it.

You should avoid obtrusion of sense of values. Instead of blaming him for not recognizing, it is of course better for him to ask “I have changed? What do you think?”. Forcing him to have same sense of value with you annoys him, and lowers your evaluation. On the other hand, woman who don’t blame are thought to take a back seat to him, and favored.

 

-Love and marriage are different


Men instinctively and impulsively fall in love at first, but after having relationship for 5 times and stable phase begins, they switch to philosophical and rational being. You would make mistake if you think they are always impulsive.

Men often long for “dutiful wife and devoted mother” type of woman for their partner. If you want to be loved deeply, and eventually spend rest of your life with him, you need to be such a person. If you are not a woman he can imagine future together, he will walk away after instinctive love affair.

 

-Money is not a measure of love


Men prefer small surprises rather than showy ones. Women are way more realistic, and men are more romantic and sensitive. You can select gifts with motivation when you feel freshness to each other, but the difference in price is not the difference of how much you love.

One of the most hated and disappointed attitude of women is material desire. You shouldn’t be inactive and assume it is natural for him to give you something. Instead, keep a pace with him and consider feelings. A man in philosophical phase is romantic. Please think carefully about his feeling.

 

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Men act instinctively at first, but eventually consider a sense of humanity. Their ulterior motive may be strong, but hate to put into words. They want their ulterior motive to be accepted, and yet act with atmosphere. Romantic and sensitive, but somehow straightforward. They love to be called manful than cute. By understanding such male psychology and stimulate their points time to time, you can reach happy love.

 

Summary

9 ways to know male psychology for happy love

-What are men’s instincts?
-Difference in attitudes
-Men have much pride
-All men have ulterior motive
-Opening up yourself a little is necessary
-Philosophical and rational
-Understand the difference in sense of values
-Love and marriage are different
-Money is not a measure of love