9 ways to understand male psychology

Ways to understand male psychology! 9 ways to control his feelingHow long are you with your partner? If you have just started going out, you are filled with happiness and enjoying everyday, but don’t you feel worried and lonely at the same time? Aren’t you having unstable emotions?

If you are with your partner for years, you may feel stabled but sometimes feel unsatisfied or have no emotional change. If there are ways to capture his heart, you can surely enjoy any situation with him and have more fun everyday. Let’s understand male psychology and have happy life filled with love!



9 ways to understand male psychology 

 

1. Show your innocence like a child 


The most popular lies women say is “nothing”. Women have a habit of hiding their true feeling by instinct, and that’s maybe why they often answer “nothing” when asked “What’s wrong? Are you OK?” Also they can’t honestly tell sadness to their partners or pretend to be calm to draw his attention.

However, this has opposite effect. Men are basically insensitive, they don’t understand if you don’t say honestly. Therefore, be happy when you are happy, and show depression on your face when you are sad. Girlfriend showing her emotion honestly, even about small things, looks cute.

 

2. Open up yourself 


Many men say they want to take care of somewhat helpless woman rather than perfect women. With a woman who opens herself up, they think they can’t leave her alone and “need to do something for her”. Also, men like to take up initiative, and appeal their ability by working actively.

Also, don’t forget to praise him. “Wow!” “You are great!” Build up his self-esteem.

 

3. Treat everyone equally


Maybe it’s not good to treat your boyfriend in same way as your friends, but if you show your feeling “you are important but friends are also important”, he starts to feel he wants be more special to you.

For example, some women say they never send messages to anyone during a date. He feels happy about it, and never worries about her. However, unstable love is more passionate than stable love, so don’t let him get used to the stable situation. Sometimes send back some messages to your friends during a date. Don’t do it too much, though!

 

4. Huggy him when just two of you


There are times when you are with friends, and not only two of you. In such situation, don’t stick too much to him. You should avoid talking in sweet voice, bragging about him, and avoid physical contacts such as holding hands or hooking on his arm.

After seeing your friends and become two of you, you can depend on him. It is effective to huggy him, before he tells you his worries about your dismissive attitude. He will be happier with some physical contacts.

 

5. Don’t tell him everything


You should express emotions clearly, but you should be a bit mysterious for him to be attractive at the same time. Don’t start talking about yourself or past memories, and talk briefly when asked.

By doing this, he would think more about you. He wonders whether to ask you more about you, and cannot forget to think about you with curiosity, obsession and jealousy in addition to love.

 

6. Faithful woman is loved longer


If you lose shame in front of your partner, he would get used to it and freshness in the beginning is lost gradually. Men are susceptible to faithful women. Shy gestures look cute to them.

When you change clothes, go to different room or use bathroom. Sometimes turn down his offer and make him wait for you. Of course be careful not to do it too much.

 

7. Answer mails later


He would feel relieved if you answer his massage quickly, but the longer he waits for your answer the more he will think about you. However, some SNS massages show “read”, so he might feel frustrated.

Therefore, if you can tell that his message doesn’t require immediate response, don’t read it and leave it for a while. Once he realizes that you have a time he doesn’t know about, he starts to think he wants to know everything about you.

Men love like hunting, so once their girlfriends act the way they want, they will be satisfied. Therefore, make situations that he can’t control. Doing it too frequently can cause conflict, so be careful when to do it. When you answer his message, don’t forget to say “Sorry, I didn’t recognize” or some apology.

 

8. Overreact to what he has done 


Saying too many “sorry” makes the word less effective, but saying “thank you” is not. Tell him “thank you” with happy smile, even about small things. He would feel good and try to make you happier.

 

9. Don’t rely too much on him


Many of you might ask your boyfriend for help when having problems. Men like to be relied, but start to doubt that maybe they are just used, when relied too much.

Also he will get used to your problems after many times, and his reaction becomes rough. Hold back your feeling and solve problems by yourself, or ask someone else. He would start to think “why don’t you rely more on me?” He will be crazy about you.

 

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I’ve introduced 9 ways to understand and control male psychology. Men’s desires all depend on “want to be satisfied”. They are hoping to be satisfied, and yet lose interests once they are satisfied. So he will think and go after you by stopping everything just before satisfying him. These 9 tips are also useful to get out of ordinary days, so please remember them!

 

Summary

9 ways to understand male psychology 

1. Show your innocence like a child
2. Open yourself up
3. Treat everyone equally
4. Huggy him when just two of you
5. Don’t tell him everything
6. Faithful woman is loved longer
7. Answer mails later
8. Overreact to what he has done
9. Don’t rely too much on him