Height difference of couple is not always with short woman and tall man, but it can be opposite.

I would like to introduce ways to change disadvantages of height difference to advantages. First of all, what disadvantages are there? Depends on who is shorter, disadvantages differs.

What is true to everyone is “need to look up or bend down to talk, and suffer hard postures”, “difficult to kiss while standing”, or “looks imbalanced when both are standing aside”. If a man is shorter, a woman may hesitate to wear high-heeled shoes.

However, these disadvantages can be changed to advantages once you change your point of view.

9 ways to make height difference advantages

Looking up = natural glancing up

We often hear “glancing up” is one of the cute gestures, but it is difficult to do. You may just look like you are staring. However with height difference, you can naturally glance up.

Bend down to listen = kindness

You sometime bend down to listen to your partner or to look into eyes. It is a bit tiring to do it while walking. But when people see you doing so, they will think you are “kind” or “really love your partner” and many people will have good impression about you.

It doesn’t mean you act for people’s evaluation, but what you suffer might be taken as advantage for others.

Use steps to kiss

You might have seen in dramatic scenes in dramas or comics where characters kiss using steps. This can be done only with height difference.

Not only with steps, but there are also times when one of them sits on the higher place to have same eye level, and kiss. This is popular situation in comics for girls, and I’m sure many girls are longing to do it.

It is an advantage only for those with height difference.

Value the atmosphere of each other

Some of you might worry that you “look like family or siblings instead of a couple” or “look imbalanced” because of height difference. But I thought that tall man holding short woman’s shoulder and walking naturally was wonderful.

You can be looked as a couple with your atmosphere. Love for family and couple are different, don’t you think? If you love each other, you will only look as a couple regardless of height difference.

Think about why you worry about balance

And the matter of balance. This maybe is a popular worry for short men. Women think about men and hesitate to wear high-heeled shoes. Maybe men don’t want their partner to wear high-heels. When do you worry about balance?

When people look at you. When you see reflection on windows or mirrors. There are many possible situations. If you worry about balance when seeing yourself in windows or mirrors, you are worrying about people’s eyes. It is also the same when people are looking at you.

You are not with your partner because you want to be looked good. You are together because you love each other, aren’t you? If you think why you worry so much about “balance”, you can find advantages.

Talk about height differences with partner

This maybe is difficult way, but you can solve conflicts and patience about height by understanding each other’s thoughts.

For instance, it is possible that only woman is worried that she is taller, and man is not caring about it at all. Maybe he thinks he doesn’t want her to worry about her height. By talking honestly, you can feel each other closer.

Think that height difference is not disadvantage, but advantage to think about each other more.

Find good things derived from height difference

-can be reached to high place you can’t reach
-you can feel surrounded and comfortable when hugged

Many people are jealous about couple with height difference. By finding more advantages than disadvantages, you can feel better about height difference.

Enjoy the difference of face between when standing and sitting

If both of you are standing, you often see nose, chin or head of your partner. When you change your position, you will see different face. You can enjoy this subtle difference because of height difference.

-Feel what your partner is seeing

Having height difference means you are seeing things from different point of view. To want to know about your partner is natural thing. If you are of same height, you probably don’t think about it. To see and enjoy what each other is seeing is only possible for those with height difference.

Did you like it?

Could you find some advantages about height difference? It is important to think things positively. Think height difference as an advantage to feel each other closer, and build deeper relationship.

Summary

9 ways to make height difference advantages

Looking up = natural glancing up
Bend down to listen = kindness
Use steps to kiss
Value the atmosphere of each other
Think about why you worry about balance
Talk about height differences with partner
Find good things derived from height difference
Enjoy the difference of face between when standing and sitting
Feel what your partner is seeing