Don’t you feel like being outside a topic or no one love you? Main character of my life is myself, but why? Why cannot I have good relationships with the others? Then why should I be alone? I guess that a lot of people experience it once.
I will let you know how you can be lovable person with good “habits”.
How Can Be Lovable Everyday: Change Your Habit
The communication is not a thing consisting of only words.
We take an “expression”, a “gesture” or a “behavior”from the person who you talk with. Then you decide “this person is good” or “this person makes me calm”, so you categorize the people around you. The important thing is people feel already categorize when you see.
How can you be categorized in good category by the others? Let’s start.
How Can Be Lovable Everyday: Change Your Habit.
Firstly, categorize what kind of person will be liked or disliked.
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Thinking |
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Liked |
Disliked |
| Positive for the things | Negative for the things |
| Supporting | Complaining |
| Listening to the others | Not listening to others |
| Be proud of the others | Not be proud of |
| Take caring | Think only myself |
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Face expression |
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Liked |
Disliked |
| Many face expression | Expressionless |
| Eye contacts | No eye contacts |
| Smiling | No Smiling |
| Nice smile | Seems disappointing |
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Habits |
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Liked |
Disliked |
| Good posture | Bad posture |
| Relaxed | Nervous |
| Smart behavior | Dull behavior |
| Good body expression | No body expression |
| Eat well and clean | Not clean to eat |
Secondly, How Can You Get Lovable Habits.
Step 1, Understand what kind of habit you have.
・What kind of face expression you have. ・How you speak. ・Posture? ・How you walk? ・How is your body language?
Talk to big mirror and record yourself by mobile.
Step 2, Write on paper you realize about yourself.
Human being is easy to forget if they are not going to output. Makes yourself important.
Step 3, Make the deadline (3-5 days should be good) for yourself, and shift better and better.
Score yourself till the deadline. When you can reach your goal, prepare some rewards for yourself.
Let’s already stop attributing that human relations and communication do not go well to the person. The unpleasant manner and behavior of the friend whom there is in front are transference mirrors of your own in many cases.
Sums Up Of Today.
If this article makes you change, I will be happy.
How Can Be Lovable Everyday: Change Your Habit
Knew what kind of habit people know.
・Voice
・Thinking
・Face expression
・Habits
Know how can you get lovable habits.
Step 1, Understand what kind of habit you have.
Step 2, Write on paper you realize about yourself.
Step 3, Make the deadline (3-5 days should be good) for yourself, and shift better and better.
