How Can Be Lovable Everyday: Change Your Habit

How to make good communication and human relations

2017.08.25 2014.11.01

Don’t you feel like being outside a topic or no one love you? Main character of my life is myself, but why? Why cannot I have good relationships with the others? Then why should I be alone? I guess that a lot of people experience it once.

I will let you know how you can be lovable person with good “habits”.

How Can Be Lovable Everyday: Change Your Habit

The communication is not a thing consisting of only words.

We take an “expression”, a “gesture” or a “behavior”from the person who you talk with. Then you decide “this person is good” or “this person makes me calm”, so you categorize the people around you. The important thing is people feel already categorize when you see.

How can you be categorized in good category by the others? Let’s start.

How Can Be Lovable Everyday: Change Your Habit.

Firstly, categorize what kind of person will be liked or disliked.

*Thinking*
Liked	Disliked
Positive for the things	Negative for the things
Supporting	Complaining
Listening to the others	Not listening to others
Be proud of the others	Not be proud of
Take caring	Think only myself
Face expression
Liked	Disliked
Many face expression	Expressionless
Eye contacts	No eye contacts
Smiling	No Smiling
Nice smile	Seems disappointing
Habits
Liked	Disliked
Good posture	Bad posture
Relaxed	Nervous
Smart behavior	Dull behavior
Good body expression	No body expression
Eat well and clean	Not clean to eat

Secondly, How Can You Get Lovable Habits.

Step 1, Understand what kind of habit you have.

・What kind of face expression you have. ・How you speak. ・Posture? ・How you walk? ・How is your body language?

Talk to big mirror and record yourself by mobile.

Step 2, Write on paper you realize about yourself.

Human being is easy to forget if they are not going to output. Makes yourself important.

Step 3, Make the deadline (3-5 days should be good) for yourself, and shift better and better.

Score yourself till the deadline. When you can reach your goal, prepare some rewards for yourself.

Let’s already stop attributing that human relations and communication do not go well to the person. The unpleasant manner and behavior of the friend whom there is in front are transference mirrors of your own in many cases.