Look! 5 Techniques to grossly up your first impression

Look! 5 Techniques to grossly up your first impression

 Socializing is troublesome, and I want to be alone.

You may think so. However you may be jealous when you see or hear people talking happily together. Anyone has had such experience once.
I was also it in the old days, to say “the perverse person.”

But probably I have never obtained something by taking such an attitude. I repeated such a vicious circle that I held all by oneself and saved stress, and no place to blow off a feeling because I had few friends.

Now I think why I was not obedient but stubborn like that.

Today I will tell what such people that are slightly weak in “socializing” and “human relations” should know.
It is a method easy to anyone and effective to improve your first impression drastically and surely.

It might greatly change the later human relations to make the beginning of socializing and your first impression better. If even you who do not have confidence yourself and who have a complex in appearance a little would practice the method I tell today, your first impression would be definitely up.

This means that new step for changing you, or the beginning of your change.

Then I will begin it at once.



Look! 5 Techniques to grossly up your first impression

 

1. You show healthfully

The first is the story of of your appearance. Even if people say anything in the mouth, they prefer high-quality DNA unconsciously in the subconscious.
The brightness of eyes and a posture and a flexible physical movement are essential to make your first impression better.

Do you want to meet a dirty person or a bad-smelling person? Do you want to make friends with them?

Impossible, isn’t it?
However, many people have unexpectedness about them.

Scurfiness unkempt hair
Worn-out clothes (not a design)
Eye mucus, mucus, nose hairs
Bad breath
When you talk, you do not watch the eyes of your partner
Stoop

Let’s change right now if you agree.
The minimum manner when you meet a person can be recovered if conscious. Because the half of it is a custom.

Point: Your relationships improve for the better just to be seen healthfully.

 

2. You show a smile within 3 seconds after meeting

The next of your appearance is a method to capture an opponent at the moment you meet him.
It is simple and very effective one. Most of first impression are fixed within 5 seconds since you see him for the first time.

metaphorically speaking, it seems that you take a photograph at the moment you meet a person and store the image of him in brain.

Therefore smile is essential in the first meeting.

As for the people who are not good at emotional expression, let’s make a smile 30% more usual!

Point: The person with the image of smile is easy to be remembered, and the impression is good, too

 

3. You are aware of the keywords in a conversation, We think unconsciously “what we want” and “what we require.”

We talk about them unconsciously.

Let’s turn your attention to “the words” repeatedly to come out in the conversation of your partner.

The person may have the sense of values to place the emphasis on the social reputation and materials if the word “work,” “money” and “success” frequently comes out in a conversation.
And, the person is in “a heart is in a dry state” (wanting state) and may have the sense of values to place the emphasis on the abstract or invisible things if many keywords such as the “love” and “happiness” are used.

If you find a keyword coming out well, it is what your partner wants.

Therefore try to spread the story as much as possible by showing interest in it.

 

4. You catch what your partner says and accept itBecause the partner’s thought is different from mine, “I hate,” “I am weak” and “I do not want him involved.” You do not end with it, and, please accept his opinion and thought once.

Negation and refusal will leave other people and narrow your field of vision.

Even if your partner’s way of thinking is different from yours, you accept “there is also a way of thinking” or “there is also a point of view like that.”

And if possible, you get out of your partner why he thinks so, and please add the new view into you.

Point: Negation stands against your partner. Empathy and understanding puts your partner on your side.

 

5. You tell thanks, impressions, and interests to your partner, The last is a summary.

We everybody has such a desire that “I want to be thanked,” “I want you to be impressed together” or “I want you to admire me. (I want you to be interested in me) “

Many people put out these desires first and are going to tell oneself only.
It might feel good with them, but it might be “…..” for their partner.

Finally, the usage of the following law would make a partner of the first meeting comfortable.

It is “to tell the words of thanks” and to tell having an interest ” with greatly moving emotions” in a conversation.

For your partner, you could become the person understanding him and the person who he wants to see and talk with again. This is the best first impression.

 

How about things mentioned above?

You cannot change anything if you continue to be passive. Take action by yourself and let’s sow the seeds of change!
Your first impression improves certainly if you practice what I told you today.

Please change knowledge into action.

Even people who do not have confidence in themselves and people who have a complex in appearance a little can become new one from tomorrow! The knowledge is a motive for you to take action. The action brings you a change and a result.
I sincerely hope that this article would become a small lamp for you to advance into the future.

 

Then the followings are a summary of today.

Really good! 5 Techniques to up dramatically your first impression

1. You show healthfully
2. You show a smile within 3 seconds after meeting
3. You are aware of the keywords in a conversation
4. You catch what your partner says and accept it
5. You tell thanks, impressions, and interests to your partner