After Engagement☆9must Preparations by Wedding

After Engagement☆9must Preparations by Wedding
Congratulations on your engagement! You must be the happiest person in the world. It should be golden time you could think the world goes around for you. However, after engagement, there are many things to do by wedding. You would be upset on the day of your wedding if you kicked up your heels all the time thinking love is everything. Brides are quite busy so get things done early.

It is the beginning of new life so you should start the new life with proper preparations. I will introduce 9 must preparations by wedding after engagement .



After Engagement☆9must Preparations by Wedding

 

・Inform parents about engagement


If you and your partner are determined to live through life, inform parents about engagement. You will feel extremely nervous at the moment like TV drama or movie. You should ask your partner his parent’s taste and prepare a gift, choose clean and formal clothes for the meeting. Of course, dirty shoes and dirty socks are out of question. Since his parents will become your family, you need decent behavior and decent answers.

 

・Arrange place for the wedding


Mostly it is possible to reserve a place for the wedding a year before. It is hard to book popular places so you should arrange a place as soon as possible. If you want to marry in church and you are not member of the church, you might have to go to the church several times before your wedding.

There have been many people who plan their wedding by themselves like abroad, at restaurant, on board something like that. Choose the best place for the two.

 

・Betrothal gift


Today betrothal gift might be not common but it should be a life time memory in hotel or Japanese restaurant. Basic betrothal gift is groom’s family gives betrothal gift (traditional out fits and articles) and money to bride’s family. And groom’s family gives some gifts back to bride’s family.

The customary ceremony used to have a go-between, but today many couples perform the ceremony without a go between.

 

・Choose outfits


It is a very exciting preparation, isn’t it? Costume change, bouquet or wedding dress, there are a lot of things to choose. And don’t forget to book an esthetic salon for wedding and going to hair removal salon with a focus on decollete and the back hair removal would be good.

 

・Guest list


Since there are numerous things to choose such as doing guest list, the order of speech, seating arrangement, dishes, wedding gifts, is the climax of wedding preparations. There is veteran staff in wedding center and you can consult them about wedding. However, it is too hard to do by just you and your partner. You should ask someone to check your plans whether it is Ok or not.

 

・Honeymoon destination


You must not forget honeymoon. Enjoy the greatest moment just you and your partner. Where would you like to go? If you want to go abroad, you should book early. In case of Japan, a place of memories would be good. In case of foreign trip, you must check whether your passport is expired. You might need to be vaccinated for trips to some countries.

 

・Inform your workplace


First, inform your boss about marriage. Leave application is necessary too. Haven’t you already informed your coworkers about marriage? If you would leave your company, some office procedures would be needed. Your friends might throw a party for you, so preparing some gifts might be good.

 

・New house


Haven’t you decided where you will live with your partner? In case of rent, it is important to prepare necessary documents for the contract like resident register, certificate seal and income certificate. You should prepare those things beforehand.

And it is important to arrange your new house utility such as gas, water, electricity around a week before you move. To arrange interior like curtains or rugs in your new house before you move is convenient.

 

・Move preparation


You should prepare move as early as possible. It takes time and effort like disposing unnecessary things and packing. There are also many detailed-works such as submit notification of change of address to a post office, stop newspaper subscription or notification of moving out would be necessary depending on the places. So you should make a list and check it.

 

How was that?

It takes lots of hard work, isn’t it? So you should cooperate with your partner for the beginning of your new life. Since couples tend to get nervous before their wedding, you would fight lots with your partner.

People tend to be critical when they get tired. So you should prepare your wedding as early as possible having room to breathe. Even if you would fight with your partner, you have the same goal as your partner. He is also working hard to stay with you forever. You should not think he is not cooperative. It is important to express your gratitude to your partner. So if he would do something for you, you should appreciate that. Since you will live together through life, you should respect each other.

I almost forget to write, “Don’t forget to file your marriage paper”

 

Summary

After Engagement☆9must Preparations by Wedding

・Inform parents about engagement
・Arrange place for the wedding
・Betrothal gift
・Choose outfits
・Guest list
・Honeymoon destination
・Inform your workplace
・New house
・Move preparation