More than 200 thousand married couples divorce every year in Japan. Regardless of times or country, major divorce reasons are still the same. I will introduce 9 divorce causes, so please read them and see if you have dangerous prelude of your marriage life.

Worst 9divorce Reasons! Ominous Prelude of Marriage

・Different values

Words cannot exactly express what is important to people. Even though your partner told you about his or her values before marriage, you cannot exactly get it. So you might feel difference about your partner in marriage life. You might be wildered by your partner’s perspective, conflict, hurt each other and get divorced after all.

Difference in values is worst one of divorce cause. In such a case, you should think that he or she was not destined soul mate and go different way.

・Violence

People show their true color when they get mad. Marriage life with a violent person will not last long. Violence causes divorce soon. Current society does not accept violence even between married couples. You should get enough strength to control your rational mind even when you get angry so much.

・Snore

You might think snore is not big deal. However, stress from unpleasant sleep accumulates gradually, and which could lead to divorce. If you take snore lightly, you should record your snore while sleeping.

You will realize how much stress people feel by snore. In such a case, separating bed room would be better for divorce prevention. You should not think snore is just a little thing. It is important to hear opinions each other.

・Spending habits

Spending habits show people’s true color. Excessive spending or saving money is not good for family. Don’t go overboard and manage money well. Especially gamble like Japanese pin ball or horse race leads to debt and debt causes divorce soon.

The moment you get married, you are not alone, you have family share equally in the burden of pleasure and suffering. You should give up gamble for your family.

・Love affair

Divorce reasons easily remind you of love affair. Although people swear eternal love when they get married, love affair is breach of confidence. The more people have faith in their partner, the more their feeling get hurt when love affair is found.

Don’t you think that is stupid that what you cannot control your rational mind just once leads to losing your precious family? Without honest heart, you would have no choice but divorce.

・Live with parents unexpectedly

There are some people who change their personality so much. If you would think you were cheated, what’s done is done. In such a case, you should admit your responsibility for not having been able to see through your partner’s true color before marriage. However, you might be able to stay with your partner in some way but living with partner’s parents is another story.

For example, you might think about divorce if you would have to live with partner’s parents caused by sudden illness of your mother-in-low or mother-in-low. It is impossible to care about health of parents-in-low before marriage. You should remember the fact the divorce case people have to live with parent’s unexpectedly after marriage, and which causes divorce is not rare.

・Mess in a room

Watching people obsessed with being clean on TV, you might think you cannot live with such person. Vice versa, it is very hard to live with people who mess up a room and never clean and tidy it up. So it is important to discuss about cleanup with a partner after marriage. Especially, men tend to take it for granted that women clean a room.

However, today men should do some house chores. You should put things you used back in place at least, and which might prevent divorce.

・Philosophy in raising children

Tendency to marry later or falling birth rate causes strengthening ideal of raising child. Today parents tend to have specific educational goals for their children. That is not bad thing.

However, disagreement about raising child can lead to bad mood between married couples. They conflict between his ideal and her ideal because they cherish their children. But it would be cruel to their children if they would get divorced caused by such a reason. What is important is caring about children. you should not impose so much ideal of education.

・Matter of chemistry about partner’s family

It is important to cherish partner’s parents like your parents. Some people tend to prioritize their parent’s opinion more than opinion of their partner. You should not be emotional like “Don’t you care more about what your parents say than me?” or “Do you stand up for your mother?”

You should respect your partner’s values which he cares about his parents. If you would not respect partner’s parents, it could lead to divorce. On the contrary, your partner would think you are so reliable and you are so good wife if you could get along with partner’s parents.

How was that?

Some of reasons are so trivial and may make you think “That’s not big deal!” A married couple used to be a stranger, so once they go the wrong way, it leads to divorce soon. If you think this may be the case, you should try to improve yourself as soon as possible.

With consideration to your partner, you will live a happy marriage life in the face of the 9 reasons.

Summary

Worst 9divorce Reasons! Ominous Prelude of Marriage

・Difference in values
・Violence
・Snore
・Spending habits
・Love affair
・Live with parents unexpectedly
・Mess in a room
・Philosophy in raising children
・Matter of chemistry about partner’s family