9 Top Divorce Reasons

9 Top Divorce Reasons
To spend life with life partner through life is ideal. However, it is quite difficult do so. No matter how much the two swear eternal love, they would end up breaking up. Staying with partner for the rest of life would be the matter in movies. Pushing heart away with the times even though they loved each other before marriage is not special. It is so sad. So I will introduce top divorce causes.

However, once find a life partner don’t you want to live with him or her for the rest of life? I hope this helps you.



9 Top Divorce Reasons

 

・Personality conflict


Since this is frequent cause of celebrity’s divorce, it seems many people know the cause. Personal conflict is terrible because it is too difficult to live with a person who has completely different personality from yours. Unmarried people might think they should have known the personal conflict before their marriage.

However, people can do it someone’s way in a short time. However, once people get married, they tend to express themselves more freely or get found eventually. It is quite natural that such a thing happens because married couples spend so much time together. And spending so much time together reveals someone’s other aspects.

 

・Cheating


The next cause is cheating. A human is an animal after all. People instinctively give strong genes to the next generation. Regardless of gender, that is instinct. However, no matter how much cheaters insist cheating is instinct, their spouses will never accept it. It is quite difficult to stay with a partner cheated as a spouse. So cheating is frequent divorce cause.

 

・Family issues


Family issues, it is quite difficult to solve them because they are so complicated. There are various kinds of problems such as a mean mother-in-low, other relatives, nagging head family. These issues often make a wife distressed so much and lead to divorce.

 

・Domestic Violence


Violence is out of question. Even people have language, some people resort to violence. It is hard to live with such a person. People tend to think domestic violence is matter of men, but unexpectedly many women resort to violence at home. And some people use verbal violence to their spouse, and which leads to depression.

 

・Lavish expenditure


The next cause is money problem. Living with a prodigal partner like spending too much on designer’s products leads to wrecked life. Although money is not everything, poverty is harsh. You should be careful about lavish men or women who love designer’s products before marriage. Men like bill split would be good point for marriage.

 

・Problem drinker


There are some people who are like a different person when they are drunk such as be violent, shout abusive language something like that. What is worse is that they do not remember what they did in many cases. It would be good if they would be persuadable and stop drinking by but that hardly happen. So the cause often leads to divorce.

 

・Child neglect


Child care is quite hard. Although inexperienced people tend to take it lightly it exhausts people mentally and physically. If a partner would never take care of a baby, it exhausts the other’s not only physical but also mentality. That would be naturally thought as child neglect.

 

・Pay no attention to house


You should prioritize your family after marriage because your family supports you. However, many people do not understand that. There are many people who pay no attention to their family and go to play golf with work partners in holiday or go to a drinking party. He can’t complain even if his wife said she wanted to divorce.

 

・Gamble


The last cause is gamble. Although a casino is prohibited by law in Japan, there are many facilities for gamble. It is said that Japan’s gamble market is comparable to Las Vegas. So it is true that many Japanese people get absorbed in gamble. Gamble is so addictive that people cannot easily get out of gamble by them self. It leads to home economy crash and wrecked marriage life. So gamble is frequent divorce cause.

 

How was that?

You must have heard the causes before. I introduced top divorce causes, so it is quite natural you have heard them before. However, it is fact that they are frequent divorce causes. The key is to doing what you should on a routine basis and refraining from doing what you should not do for happy marriage life. You should not depend on too much your partner even though you married. That leads to happy marriage life.

 

Summary

9 Top Divorce Reasons

・Personality conflict
・Cheating
・Family issues
・Domestic Violence
・Lavish expenditure
・Problem drinker
・Child neglect
・Pay no attention to family
・Gamble