7 ways for harmonious relation by communication games

One of the ways to make harmonious relation is communication. However, genders and ages sometimes become obstacles. Some people have difficulties communicating. Not as social phobia, but more people are hesitating to communicate with others. However, we can’t ignore relation with others even in a small community. What should you do then? There is a method called communication games.
One of the ways to make harmonious relation is communication. However, genders and ages sometimes become obstacles. Some people have difficulties communicating. Not as social phobia, but more people are hesitating to communicate with others.

However, we can’t ignore relation with others even in a small community. What should you do then? There is a method called communication games.



7 ways for harmonious relation by communication games

 

-Look for good things


One of communication games is called “good or new”. This is to talk about good thing happened in last 24 hours in 30 seconds. Any small thing is OK. To think positively, recall good things happened in a day.

You were about to fall but prevented it, or digits of a clock was all the same. If your feeling became positive, consider these small things as “good things”.

 

-Talk to someone


In communication games, it is important to talk with someone. You feel the distance between others by talking, and have a chance to build a relationship. In “good or new”, you practice to talk to someone about good things for 30 seconds.

It is only 30 seconds, but it is very difficult in the beginning. It is a “good thing” just for you, but it is easier to listen for others than negative stories. Find someone, and try to talk your good things. It will be a good opportunity to feel a distance between you and others.

 

-Look for affinity


Affinity is important when trying to communicate with people. There is a program to talk to find affinities in communication games. Any small thing is good. Look for affinities between you and others. Where they are from, their home town, and favorite foods.

These are some easy examples. Just try not to say negative words such as things they don’t like. Once you find affinities about favorite things or blood types, you can talk more from them.

 

-Expand the conversation


When you found affinities, expand the conversation from there. For example, from the topic about “do you prefer meat or fish?”, you can talk about what kind of food they like or about good restaurants…you can talk about many things. Talking about hobbies, you can expand more if you can find common topics.
Finding affinities is just a trigger. Enjoying the conversation is more important. It is also important to talk about what you like. Not only looking for opportunities of conversation in others, it is also important to offer a topic from you.

 

-Listen to them talking


Just talking about yourself won’t make others feel fun. In communication games, there is a program which asks you to listen seriously to others. Listening is important, and it is the first step to build trust relationship.

Your next word is decided by what he/she is talking about. People can’t enjoy if you are just talking about you. Making smooth communication means how much you obtain words from them and make them as your topic.

 

-See yourself objectively


Those who are not good at communication often don’t know their current situations. If you can tell earlier that people are unamused with your stories, your relationships can be more smooth. To know it, step back and see yourself from farther point of view.

It is important to see yourself in calm way, and notice you are not joining the conversation or how you can expand the topic. You should also pay attention to whether you are properly keeping the conversational ball rolling. Communication can’t be done alone.

 

-Have a lot of experience


Those who don’t like to communicate avoid other people. However, doing so won’t make smooth relationships no matter how much techniques are used. Having a lot of practice in talking is the most important thing.

If you are not good at communication, you should talk to someone all the more. In personal relationships, distance between you and people becomes important. It is not estimated, but you measure with a tool called conversation.

 

I hope you could find some useful tips.

The most important thing is communication games is conversations. You are forced to talk to a person you first meet. There are many methods, but conversations is still the most important. You sometimes try to get across something in telephone game style. Everyone knows that what is needed in communication is a conversation. Please make chances to talk, and have harmonious relationships.

 

Summary

7 ways for harmonious relation by communication games

-Look for good things
-Talk to someone
-Look for affinity
-Expand the conversation
-Listen to them talking
-See yourself objectively
-Have a lot of experience