What would you do if you found out that your boyfriend has a cheating partner? Some of you may be depressed and don’t want to see him anymore. Some may reflect on yourselves and wonder that there may be a problem with you. Thinking that it is just a cheating partner, and you are a main girlfriend, you can feel strong and confident. However if he is quite serious about the other partner, you can’t be strong. If you wonder how serious he is, or doubt that you maybe are a cheating partner, you need to know the truth.

I will tell you the ways to know his seriousness, so please take a look.

8 ways to know his seriousness about cheating partner

-When he keeps saying selfish things

You might think that being selfish means he loves you and he depends on you, but sometimes it is not true. He might have someone else, and being bully on you. What would he do if you show a little defiant manner against his selfishness?

If he seems to be unconcerned about it, there is a possibility that a cheating partner is more important for him. If so, it is better to stop love him.

-Doesn’t answer the phone

If he rarely answers your calls, he might be with a cheating partner. He can’t answer because he is with the other partner. It is natural to answer a call from loving person, if he is not with a cheating partner. You might feel like blaming him for not answering your calls, but if you do so, he will think more about the other partner. Please be careful.

-Too many “one phrase” messages…

His reply to messages can be neat to a cheating partner but rough toward you. For example, if you often receive messages like “yes” “OK” or any other “one phrase” replies, it means he is annoyed to reply to you. Also if you see him sending a long message to someone when he is with you, he is more serious about a cheating partner. It is possible that he leaves from you.

-Reason he can’t decide the schedule

If he often can’t decide his schedule when you ask “when can we meet next time?”, he may be putting priority on meeting the other partner. It means he is more serious about a cheating partner. If he can’t decide the schedule soon, he might won’t treasure you in the future. If so, you will be happier to keep a distance from him.

-Go to his room without an appointment

If he is living by himself, a girlfriend can visit him without an appointment. If he gets angry about it, he is keeping some secrets. In addition, if he is not worried about you getting angry and leave him, it can be said that he is thinking a cheating partner is more important than you.

Being yelled for no reason means someone else is more important than you for him, so may be it is better to break up with him.

-Whether you can join an event together or not

If he can’t meet you on days of events such as on Christmas or a new year’s day, which people want to spend time with their partners, he might have an appointment with a cheating partner. It is an important event that you want to spend time with him, but he is putting priority on someone else.

For those who are not aggressive about events for couples, you can doubt that he is more serious about the other woman.

-Tell him about your friend being cheated

Talk in front of him that your friend is being cheated. He will whether listen to you with nothing, or say he doesn’t want to hear it and walk away. If he gets angry for making him listen such story, he is ashamed to hear similar thing about him. In this situation, you can doubt that a cheating partner is more important for him, or he is not thinking about breaking up with her.

-Try whether he would listen to your selfish orders

Say something selfish to him. It can be an easy thing or something a bit more difficult. It can be like “Come to my house right now, I want to see you”. If he won’t listen to you, he may not be thinking so much about you.It is natural for men to listen to their important people as much as possible.

If he was a such kind of person before, but not anymore, you can doubt more that he is having closer relation with a cheating partner.

It is natural for you to feel jealous toward his cheating partner.

Many of you would feel that you don’t want to give up! However, he might be thinking mostly about the other woman now. If so, you will be the one who feel pain. Take a close look at the situation and decide whether to keep going out with him or not.

Summary

8 ways to know his seriousness about cheating partner

-When he keeps saying selfish things
-Doesn’t answer the phone
-Too many “one phrase” messages…
-Reason he can’t decide the schedule
-Go to his room without an appointment
-Whether you can join an event together or not
-Tell him about your friend being cheated
-Try whether he would listen to your selfish orders