7 ways to be bright and make her like you

7 ways to become bright and make her like you

In general, a popular man can be good looking and tall. But not only good-looking guys but guys with a certain air are popular among women.

This is because the latter are quick witted. I will talk about reasons why they can win women’s heart and introduce ways to make her like you.



7 ways to be bright and make her like you

 

Improve your memory


Some people are able to think and respond quickly whatever they are asked. Thinking is closely connected with memory. If you can tap into your memory as much as you can, you can have a good conversation. Even if you don’t have a good memory, don’t worry.

There are games and apps to improve your memory, so why don’t you try them? You can use them during commute times. Also, it is essential to have a good sleep in order to develop your memory. You should sleep at least 6 to 8 hours a day.

 

Improve your understanding


The most important point to become bright is to improve your understanding. If you are nimble, you can be capable and dependable at work. Also, you can make a good conversation.

Even if you are not nimble, you don’t need to worry as you can improve your understanding. It is effective to read newspapers and books. If you don’t like reading, just try to read some magazines.

Reading is a perfect way to improve your understanding as you need the ability to process information. You should take your time to read to understand it rather than skimming.

 

Train your imagination


If you are nimble, you know what a speaker is going to say at the end since you can guess from words or facial expressions the speaker uses. If you want to train your imagination, it is effective to read novels or listen to radio dramas.

Also, is it good for you to use your imagination when you see things you see every day. For example, you can make a story by using view from a train or imagine scenes by using abstract lyrics.

 

Improve your ability to judge


Are you able to judge at the critical moment? It is desirable to have not only a good understanding but ability to make a good decision and judgement. This is because poor judgement may lead to undesirable situations.

Good judgement is the result of experience, and also you need both good and bad experience. If you have a negative attitude, you can’t judge or make a decision. Try to be one step ahead and you will look very tempting.

 

Train your logical thinking


When you hear the word “logical thinking”, it may remind of you Dr.Yukawa in ‘Galileo’, a TV drama. If you can think something logically, you may not explain emotionally and can come to conclusion that everyone could agree with. That’s why you are reliable both at work and in private life.

If you want to train your logical thinking, it is effective to read books about logical thinking. Also, it is good to talk with variety of people. Especially debate is the best way to train. However, if you don’t have many opportunities to debate, you can try a popular game ‘Jinrou game’.

When you debate, try to speak logically. If you record your debate, you can check what and how you have spoken.

 

Broaden your horizons


Do you help people on trouble or are you considerate? If you are always thinking of others’ feelings, everyone can feel secure with you. If you try to care for other people, you can understand situations and gain ability to communicate and judge well.

If you pay attention to others, it makes you attractive to women. In order to broaden your horizons, you should put yourself in their shoe. Don’t think about only yourself and think about others too.

 

Train your communication skills


Communication skills including responding nicely or appropriately and choosing nice words are very important to communicate with others. During a conversation you should decide what you can say or not, what you should tell or not, when you can tell, and so forth. This is not easy.

The important thing is that you should put yourself in others’ shoe. For instance, you need to think like “She may not like this topic.” or “She can be too busy to talk with me”. This means that you should read situations. Try to perceive what others want and step back if it is necessary.

 

To be bright is not an inborn ability. In order to be quick witted, you can train your ability and skills. When you become bright, you can be the centre of attention and also would be acknowledged.

You can build self confidence and look imposing. A reliable man is very attractive, so I hope you can develop your skills little by little and play a leading part some day.

 

Summary

7 ways to be bright and make her like you

Improve your memory
Improve your understanding
Train your imagination
Improve your ability to judge
Train your logical thinking
Broaden your horizons
Train your communication skills