A manual to be an attractive man – Language

A manual to be an attractive man - Language
Raise your hand if you are making effort to attract attention of women! I suppose everyone is. Working hard everyday or paying attention to diet are because of women’s eyes.

In spite of your effort, many of you are not followed by the result (or women, in this case). Thinking about fashions or researching good restaurants, you are lacking something.

Women are slightly seeing it everyday. We sometimes can’t notice about ourselves, and one of them is the use of words. Women won’t accept you if you think there is no future in language or have wrong feeling about it.

Here is an easy manual of language to become attractive man.



A manual to be an attractive man – Language

 

-Use simple words


If you want to attract women, refrain from using excess words. When we do something, we always want to hedge to protect ourselves. However, words often work negatively.

For example, if you try to praise a woman in Karaoke, “you are good” is enough. When you say “you are good at singing”, then she will react to say “only singing?”.

Furthermore, saying “you sing better than I’ve expected”, then “unexpected? Do I look like a bad singer?” is how woman reacts. Trying to make better with your words to protect yourself work negatively.

If you think a note that woman has is cute, just say “that is cute”. If you have fairly good relationship with her, she might think “what’s cute? me?”

 

-Quit using words among friends


Have been working for 3 years, but friends you go out privately are only friends form school days. If you are a such person, be careful. Be aware that being hyper and the way of talking among students keep people away from you.

Being able to drink more than others, or can work a bit more smoothly means nothing beautiful from adults’ points of view. Way of talking among friends is unpleasant to ears, and of course women are not attracted.

Rough and casual greetings should be avoided as well. Misunderstanding the values of senior and junior colleagues may ruin everything. Please quit using such words as soon as possible.

 

-Avoid words to show you better


It is men’s instinct to show themselves better than others, but those showing it obviously can be said as lacking sociality.

Things you newly bought, such as watch, shoes and bag. No matter how expensive they are, it is nothing to women’s eyes if you say it by yourself. It is impressive to recognize that a person who doesn’t say such things is casually using valuable things.

It can be said to yourself as well. Those who always start talking with a subject “I”. “I am this kind of person, don’t you think?” You should stop it. “I don’t care” is what women think. You should be cautious with “talking about things” and “talking about yourself”.

 

-Nothing starts from words of denial


This is another way to show yourself better, that be careful when using words of denial. It is true that there are many wrong things around us. If you talk directly on a target, you are considered as smart and severe person. But don’t you just want to deny people?

Using “not at all” or other words that deny everything from the beginning are often used in this case. Look back to yourself before denying others. Don’t be tripped by your own words. Maybe a woman next to you is whispering, “his work is not good at all”, “how much does he think he needs to work?”.

 

-Use words that expand


How should you use words to be an attractive man? One of the keys is “expanse”. In personal relationships, your job doesn’t expand without words of social adults.

A man who is looking only for comfort within biased value is of coursed gave up by women. And denying the past doesn’t make a bright future. Attractive man talks about tomorrow.

He talks about the future. “From now on…”, “Next time…”, and “It will probably…”. Do you have words that follow these? Women are waiting for them.

 

-Use words to give precedence


At convenience store, restaurants, and so on, there are many situations to have relation with someone for just a moment. Can you cherish these moments? Your value towards all personal relationship is shown when you show irresponsible cosumer attitude and try to blame everything on services.

Do you think a person can cherish others from bottom of his heart, when he arrogantly treats sales person? Or a person who always blame on someone with troubles can really do his work?

People gather around those who can give precendence to others. As a result, their possibilities expand as well. Women are reading your ability from your words.

 

-Attractive man always does his best


At last, I would add this to make you more conscious about words. Attractive man always does his “best” about everything. Even with a single word he won’t neglect.

Small misunderstanding of word can break all the trust he has been building, and a woman he loves can walk away. Attractive man knows about such danger in a real sense.

All of the bad examples I mentioned come from irresponsible feeling toward people and things. It is said that one instance shows all the rest, that first class people can think about everything, and deal with them neatly.

Just words, and yet words. The reason you are not attractive is maybe because you are thinking “just words”. People around you, especially women, are seeing your limit there.

 

What did you think?

Think about your use of words once again, and try to talk politely. In business, one misunderstanding can lead to big loss. Youth is your weapon, but youth that is mistaking your age is taken as just childish manner.

Women are severely looking at men, and ways to deal with people especially give negative impressions. If you deny someone, women evaluate you with same values. You will lose trust if yourself and your words are inconsistent.

Which means, your negative judge toward someone returns to you with judges of women about you. Attractive adults who have experienced a lot won’t easily deny others or try to show themselves better about easy things. Be an adult man from today and learn words of attractive man.

 

Summary

A manual to be an attractive man – Language

-Use simple words
-Quit using words among friends
-Avoid words to show you better
-Nothing starts from words of denial
-Use words that expand
-Use words to give precedence
-Attractive man always does his best