9 methods to be confident and enjoy life 10 times more

9 methods to be confident and enjoy life 10 times more

If you have more confidence in your look and talent, how wonderful your life is?

You should enjoy your life because you have the only one life to live.

Even if you know that, you may think life is hard. With these 9 methods, make yourself confident and enjoy your life ten times more.



 

9 methods to be confident
and enjoy life 10 times more.

 

1: Have your own special ability.

Do you have something you are good at? A good singer, a good bowler, or can sleep anywhere? If you have “specials” like that, you must enjoy your life. If you don’t, there is a simple solution.

First, master something you like. If you like eating, aim to be a gourmet. When someone praise you, your life must be pleasant.

 

2: Look back things you have achieved before.

But to have confidence in myself is not easy.” You may still think so, but is it true? For example, isn’t there anything you got over?

Write down things you have done before. It must be quite a list. Why do you have no confidence in yourself although you have accomplished those things? Be proud of it! They are exactly done by you, not anyone else.

 

3: Cherish your family.

If you have no confidence since you can’t give your best on your job, why don’t you focus on your family?

Our society is composed of families. When you take care of your family and keep it stable, that leads to a contribution to the society. Family is a blood relative, and people are starting to doubt the value of material happiness. It is time to feel the true happiness being with your family.

 

4: Wake up early.

“The early bird catches the worm.” As the proverb says, we think waking early is good.

You will be confident by getting up early, because most people can’t rise early, whereas they stay up late easily. If you keep rising early, you will get your own value and the society will want you. It is good for your health, and free. Even if you have trouble getting up in the morning, try rising early to enjoy your life!

 

5: Recognize other people.

If you want confidence in yourself through being recognized by society, recognize other people first.

Find good points in other people.

They may be sociable, a quick worker or student, a good athlete, a good gamer, anything else. Respect them in any way. Don’t underrate them since they are gamers. You are just blind to them. Recognize other people’s talents, and tell them if you can. They will notice your gifts too, and will recognize you.

 

6: Be grateful to everything.

In Japan, people still say traditional phrases like “Itadakimasu” or “Gochisousama”. Although these phrases implicate gratitude for meals, it is doubtful if everyone says those words with true gratitude. If you can’t feel gratitude for them, try cooking or growing vegetables. Your gratitude will arise naturally.

It is similar to other cases.

Even though Japanese often say, “I’m sorry” or “Thank you”, how many people say those with true feelings? In Japanese custom, of course you should say those words. When you say those, promise yourself to keep in mind the kindness given to you, and repay the obligation someday. By just doing this, you will be confident. Just take my word for it and try it.

 

7: Go to the beauty salon.

If you don’t have confidence in your appearance, try the beauty salon. No matter how old you are, male or female!
Don’t worry about if your friends may be surprised by your new appearance. Most people are preoccupied with themselves. It is only short time that they turn their attention to you. Changing your look a little could make your life happier.

 

8: Ask your best friend to analyze you.

Some people think they know themselves than any other people. Of course, they may be right. However, people who too much confident tend to avoid facing their negative aspects, and less-confident people often overlook their positive aspects.

What can we do?

A simple solution is to ask your best friend to analyze you. Although self-analysis is recommended for job hunting, it often contains your bias to your own. If you don’t like to talk about it, write letters to do it.

Besides, you may explore your new aspects through analyzing other people. Grasp yourself by understanding your good side and bad side. Once you understand yourself, the self-confidence will follow.

 

9: “Today is the last day of my life”

If your life is ordinary, boring, and just going on, you will find it unenjoyable. Change your mind slightly. What do you do if today is the last day of your life? (Don’t answer “Then I don’t go to work.” or so.)

You will live more eagerly than usual.

You will want to do everything completely, even if it is just making a copy. Of course, you will be exhausted if you think like that everyday. Use this method only when you can’t get motivated.
How did you find those methods?

Even if you are busy every day, find time to try those methods and make yourself confident.

Your self-confidence will be a good influence on people around you, then it leads to development of the company you work for, and even the society.

You only have one life to live. Enjoy it more!

 

Summary

9 methods to be confident and enjoy life 10 times more

1: Have your own special ability.
2: Look back things you have achieved before.
3: Cherish your family.
4: Wake up early.
5: Recognize other people.
6: Be grateful to everything.
7: Go to the beauty salon.
8: Ask your best friend to analyze you.
9: “Today is the last day of my life”