9 Long Distance Relationship Tips for Success

9 Long Distance Relationship Tips for Success

What image do you have of long distance love? “It seems difficult.” It seems cool” It seems pure romance.”

However, long-distance lovers do not wish for long distance relationship. There are many reasons of long distance love such as work, family circumstance something like that. And what long distance lovers worry is whether they can keep the relationship or not. Some people might think as long as they love each other the distance is not matter.

However, long distance is big deal for long distance lovers. So I will introduce long distance relationship tips for breaking up prevention.



9 Long Distance Relationship Tips for Success

 

・Keep in frequent touch


Long distance relationship makes people feel worried all the time because they cannot easily see each other. So you should keep in frequent touch with your partner to relieve your worries. Today, there are many communication tools such as e-mail, mixi, or twitter.

Frequent contact even just greeting could make you forget the long distance between you and your partner.

 

・Talk in detail some times


Although frequent contact is important, always just short time contact would make your partner feel empty inside. So you should make time to talk in detail with your partner sometimes like having a long phone chat with your partner at night every weekend.

It is important to spare time for growing love when you can because you cannot spend much time together.

 

・Cover for loneliness


Even though long distance lovers do not express their feelings, they have been feeling lonely each other. Although they can temporarily forget loneliness when they are busy, they tend to miss their partner and want to listen to their partner’s voice when they have time. In such a moment, don’t you want to make your partner feel less lonely?

To have a longer chat than usual in depressing rainy days or to give sweet words your partner can grow love.

 

・Talk about positive things at the end of the conversation


Even though you want to miss your partner so much, to say just over and over again like “I miss you” or I want to see you.” only accumulates loneliness.

Sometimes you can complain to your partner about your job, but you should say something makes your partner feel good at the end of conversation like “I was happy to hear your voice.” or “I cheered up.”

In that way, your partner will want to call you again soon. Even though you can share anything with your partner, complaining about something every time you talk with your partner would bore your partner. It is important to finish conversation with words make your partner want to hear your voice again.

So you should say good things about your partner at the end of the conversation, a little bit dramatic one might be good.

 

・Be honest


Although it is nothing special, be honest with your partner. You must not have some kind of affair with someone around you even though you feel lonely so much. People who have confidence to hide their affair tend to be found their love affair. You don’t want to be cheated by your partner right? So you must control yourself.

Your efforts will be paid off someday even though your partner did not see you make an effort for your partner. You should learn about way how to overcome loneliness as well as ways how to cover for your partner’s loneliness.

 

・Don’t forget anniversary


Anniversaries are biggest opportunity for long distance lovers. Anniversaries like the first day you met with, the day you fulfilled your love, birthday, Christmas. Don’t you want to celebrate the anniversaries together if you can?

If you would not meet with your partner on the days, you should make a phone call or email. You should make use of cell phone or PC to manage your anniversary schedule. Star Festival would be good anniversary for long distance relationships.

So let’s add Star Festival in the list of anniversary while having long distance relationships and celebrate together.

 

・Give a pleasure surprise


Why don’t you give a pleasant surprise like email at midnight on your partner’s birthday or give a present in usual days. To go to see without notice would be also good.

It is highly likely that long distance lovers cease love without excitement or stimulation. In such a case, you should give your partner stimulation. You can amuse yourself by planning the surprise and you will be able to see your partner get surprised when you succeed in your plan. And giving the same surprise after several years and sharing the memories would be good.

 

・Enjoy long distance relationships


People take it for granted that long distance relationships are hard and tough. That is not true because long distance relationships have some good points. There is wonderful experience only long distance lovers can have.

Absence diminishes little passions and increases great ones. When you cannot see, you can think about your partner more deeply. Having quarrel is just wasting precious time. You should cherish the time you meet with your partner and be kind to your partner.

Why don’t you enjoy long distance relationships thinking about the day you can live with your partner? And you should tell your partner to enjoy the distance. I wish for your happy long distance relationships

 

・Write a letter


Even though you make a phone call or email with your partner every day, writing letter to your partner is quite effective. You can tell embarrassing things in letters like appreciative words that you cannot say usually. That would be wonderful gift to your partner. Choose letter papers or stamps your partner loves.

You should write various types of letters like sometimes childish or sometimes stylish writing style because it would make your partner amused. You could feel warm as you imagine how your partner would react when reading your letter. Right after a fight, if your partner gets your letter, it could make up your relationship. Although emails are colorless, handwriting letters has some character and warmness.

Since letters can be an object of memories, you will be able to read them together when you come to live with your partner.

 

How were the tips?

You might do some tips unconsciously. However, you should consciously take up the ways to grab your partner’s heart more firmly. As I mentioned in the article, long distance lovers do not wish long distance relationships. So let’s think it as a crunch time for the bright future and enjoy long distance relationships.

 

Summary

9 Long Distance Relationship Tips for Success

・Keep in frequent touch
・Talk in detail some times
・Cover for loneliness
・Talk about positive things at the end of the conversation
・Be honest
・Don’t forget anniversary
・Give a pleasure surprise
・Enjoy long distance relationships
・Write a letter